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The locality and, at the same time – the foreignness of Greenpoint was fascinating to me. We could go to any of the Polish food stores on Manhattan Avenue and buy the food we used to eat in Poland. We would eavesdrop on conversations in Polish on the streets. (…) But at the same time, there was no denying we were in a different country, where rules and values were very different from what we had been used to.

I am a freelance illustrator. When I moved to New York at the end of 2015, I wanted my then 9-year-old daughter to have friends her age who would ease the stress of moving abroad. So I essentially moved to Greenpoint to live close to our Polish-Icelandic friends, who have two children my daughter’s age and who had lived here for about five years.

We were lucky to find an apartment on the same street, just a few doors down from them. Having this instant community in a new place was a great source of comfort for us. The children were having sleepovers, running between the houses in pajamas, and playing in a band in a music studio in the basement of our friends’ house. There were wonderful dinner parties hosted by our friends with Polish food and people from all over the world.

The locality and, at the same time – the foreignness of Greenpoint was fascinating to me. We could go to any of the Polish food stores on Manhattan Avenue and buy the food we used to eat in Poland. We would eavesdrop on conversations in Polish on the streets. The owner of our apartment building was Polish, most of the children from Mila’s first school year in NYC spoke Polish. There was a string of my friends from Warsaw visiting us, one after another, sleeping on our couch. But at the same time, there was no denying we were in a different country, where rules and values were very different from what we had been used to.

Elementary school, especially, was a challenging experience for both my daughter and me. The teachers were supportive, she was put in the English as a New Language program. But, as a fresh immigrant, Mila stood out – she felt like a complete outsider, at the very bottom of the social ladder, with the wrong set of values. We were immediately confronted that our lifestyle wasn’t very American – I didn’t have a fancy big car, a big house, or a proper job, and even the food she brought home for lunch was weird. Mila didn’t know how much money I was making, while some of her school friends were very aware of their parent’s earnings. It was hard to make friends among the parents – everyone was so busy. When I tried to organize an after-school hangout for Mila and her classmate, her surprised mother referred me to her daughter’s nanny to make arrangements. Then, there were fundraisers for anything the school may need outside of the basic provisions, run mostly by American parents who were much more skilled and confident when it came to nuances of networking and grant applications. It was all very new to us.

At the time when we arrived, it was obvious Greenpoint’s gentrification was starting to accelerate. Huge condo buildings started to appear one after another on the East River bank. Old Polish places started to close, often replaced with newer, fancier restaurants and bars. It was losing its quiet, small-town feel and becoming a busy hangout for hipsters and tourists. It started to look and feel more like NYC, with a much more diverse crowd of people but also – with rapidly increasing living costs, which drove many long-time residents out of their Greenpoint homes. We still live here but recognize that time to go might be coming sooner than later. Mila and her Polish-Icelandic-American friends are finishing high school. There is a huge construction planned next to our apartment building which will make work from home impossible for my Polish-American husband and me. When I think, what I will miss about living in Greenpoint is exactly the feeling of living in a small town in the middle of a big city. The privilege of living on one of its most beautiful streets – Milton. And the sunset views over the East River and Manhattan skyline, from our evening walks.

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